Archive for October, 2007

Hey everyone the 23 Annual Bridal Spectacular has been announced so mark those calendars for the best bridal show in Michiana!

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Bridal Spectacular

Sunday, January 6, 2008
South Bend, Century Center (A & B halls)
12:00 pm – 5 pm
Bridal Spectacular is proud of being the largest and
longest running bridal show in the Michiana area.
Over 85 vendors on display everything you need to plan your wedding!
Fashion shows at 1:00 pm to 3:30 pm

Let Them Eat Cake!

October 26, 2007

When I found this image of Jennifer Jason Leigh from T Magazine I just sighed and said to myself, bliss. I don’t know why but I’ve had cake on my mind lately so here are a few of my favorites from Rascia’s Creative Cakes. The pictures were taken by Brian at River City Productions. Rascia is such a creative individual and her cakes taste fantastic!


Not sure who made the following cake, I just found it cool looking. The picture was taken by Paul Chamberlin at The Music Machine.

What Are They Thinking?

October 25, 2007

Sis and I were surfing the internet tonight in search of some entertainment ideas when we ran across this DJ service, who’s name I have made sure is removed, so don’t ask. Talk about conflicting messages! They don’t have obnoxious DJs, but their image says the DJs are strung out, unshaven and not even close to being properly attired for a wedding, with a look of we don’t care on their face! Didn’t oversized, goofy looking head phones go out in the 80’s.

Wow! We went on to the next. You just have to wonder sometimes, what are people thinking!

Proposal Ideas

October 25, 2007

Nothing is more romantic than a marriage proposal.

Yesterday Inside Edition did a piece called Proposal Cam where the groom hires a photographer and videographer and has them document the big question from hidden locations. I loved the look on the bride’s face when she realized what was happening! I’m trying to track down the video and will post a link as soon as I do.

Then today I’m visiting my favorite blogs and find a lovely proposal set up at Weddings By Socialites. Sooooo romantic. I hope there was video or photos of the actual event!

Check it out!

Yesterday my sister and were out checking out photographers. Of course the ones I like are the ones she doesn’t want to visit, go figure! Don’t listen to your maid of honor, sis! We saw some nice work, but two photographers really left a bad taste in my mouth.

The first one, I’ll call Acme Photo (no real names on this post), was just so obnoxious! His work was good, but his opening sentence was about how great he was, how he was an award winner, how my sisters wedding was his wedding. Which wouldn’t be bad, all vendors in the sales pitch tell you how good they are, his just came across as conceited though. It only got worse from there. We were informed that neither family or guests would be allowed to have cameras at my own sister’s wedding and that if we wanted video we needed to hire only his referral. Wrong answers buddy! I couldn’t pull my sis out of there fast enough. First of all no one is telling me I can’t bring my camera to my own sisters wedding! How rude! Some of my favorite pictures from past weddings are the ones I or a friend took. Second no one is dictating who my sister can hire for anything but my sister or our parents who are paying for this extravaganza or me. ;-) I believe who Acme Photo really is is who my predecessor wrote the Consumer Alert about. Never thought I’d actually encounter one of these vendors though. So many professionals believe in working as a team, this guy wanted to be the dictator.

The next photographer we visited was my sister’s favorite prospect and the one I call Desperate. His work was nice, but too many fish eye lense shots in his albums in my opinion. Anyways we sat down and started to talk and he was amicable enough. His problem was he just came off as desperate. My sis had no intention of signing a contract with anyone yesterday and I am still trying to get her to agree to check out my favorites. Well we got to the end of the meeting and when mys sis said she needed time to consider he got desperate.

Our original quote for everything my sis wanted was $3000, when she balked at signing he suddenly started throwing add ons into the price. By the time we left by my calculations, his origianl package at $3000 had ballooned in value from $3000 to nearly $8000, he even threw in video production for the price of $3000. We got extra albums, a love story shoot, video and large size wall prints thrown in. Of course on the drive home my sister was ecstatic, she was going to get from Desperate Photographer $8000 worth of merchandise for $3000, what a deal!

I have a different opinion though: What is she going to give up? He started out telling us that 8 hours of wedding day coverage, him as a photographer with an assistant, an Art Leather album, engagement shoot and large frame portrait had a value of $3000. When we walked out the package had grown to include a coffee table album (something that most photographers charge thousands for and he had listed at $2000) two parent albums, a video, thank you post cards, a love story shoot and album and additional large frame pictures. Which left me wondering, his price hadn’t changed, but his costs had just skyrocketed! The coffee table album demo he showed us comes from an Italian company, probably the best manufacturer out there and costs $1500 just to print. Video is time to shoot and edit, and burn to disc plus the people he has to pay to do the work. The additional albums for our parents those cost something.

So I’m left wondering what is my sister going to give up to get her $8000 worth or products for $3000? Is the coffee table book going to be of cheaper quality than the one we were showed? Is he going to try and pull double duty and do the video while he also shoots the stills? Will we get his best assistants or the ones with less experience who costs less? Will the pictures be printed on quality archival paper or some cheaper alternative? Or was he just not worth the original price he quoted and the new package for $3000 is a better representation of what he is worth? In other words if my sister had singed for the initial offering would she have been getting ripped off with overpriced product!

Everyone is in business to make money and everything a vendor offers has a specific fixed cost to produce or sell. So I’m just left wondering how do you give someone $8000 worth of product and services for $3000 if there isn’t something given up in the process. As I told my sister, you can’t go into Tiffany’s and purchase the 1 carat diamond, 24 carat gold band priced at $10,000 for $2000. For $2000 you will end up with the 10 carat band and quarter carat diamond!

Ladies if you encounter Acme or Desperate, stay away!


Our resident “official” videographer Brian from River City Productions has posted an interesting idea to his blog, that I’m going to steal.

These are cool! Reusable gift wrap from Lucky Crow Gift Bags. This is a pretty neat idea. Cloth bags, being used as a gift wrapping, that can and should be re-gifted again and again. To me these are far better than the fancy paper gift bags that are so popular these days. It’s a neat idea and they are relatively inexpensive.

I especially love the snowflake patern, classy!

-Amy

Photo booths now there are some memories. As a kid I was always begging my dad to let me have my picture taken in a photo booth, when we ran across one. As a teenager my friends and I squeezed 8 of us into one and then proceeded to fight over who got the three photos that had everyone’s face in it. Then they seemed to disappear… In college my girlfriends and I stumbled across one while on spring break and had way too much late night fun of margaritas and pictures.

Tonight I was blog surfing and stumbled over a too cool idea!

Mrs. Strawberry over on the Wedding Bee had a photo booth at her reception for all the guests to have fun with!

Evidently this is very popular in the big cities on the coasts but I have never heard of it here. What a fun thing to do! Photographers for a lot of people can be intimidating, but I can see where a photo booth, which brings back memories can be just the thing to get fun and personality driven images of your friends and family! Don’t get me wrong, professional photography can’t be replaced but this is a fantastic addition to your reception celebration and memories.

I don’t know as of yet of anyone renting out photo booths in Michiana, I’m going to look into it. If you have had a wedding locally with a photo booth at it, please email me at michianaweddings at ameritech dot net. I’d loved to hear and possibly feature you in an article!

-Amy

One of the things that drives me nuts about this industry is that after spending $20,000, $50,000, $100,000 or more on your wedding very seldom is there anything left to show for all the money you spent. Yes you will have your video and your photos and maybe a cake cutting set or your champagne glasses, but really there isn’t anything useful left. Cake sets and champagne glasses tend to end up on a shelf displayed, not touched again till the next generation. You gown is boxed up and unless you do a Trash the Dress it won’t see the light of day again. My mom is yelling at my sister to wear hers but honestly it’s old, ugly (in my opinion, sorry mom) and not a modern design. My sister has found her own gown and I am sure any future daughter of her’s will do the same.

So I am always happy to discover something that actually has an every day use outside of the wedding day. This is too cool, in this months Bride’s Magazine the Tigerlilly line of headbands has been named Best of 2007. The cool factor is that Tigerlilly’s headbands once used at the wedding can be used again and again as a choker or a necklace. And they are so pretty! I love the Fiona which is what is in their Best Of picture.

And of course ladies, Tigerlilly is available at my favorite store Girly Girl! Tell Cyndi I say hi. :-)

Thanks to a post in the comments I have found this wonderful blog with some excellent ideas on creating wedding related scrapbooks… Avoid those stickers when it’s wedding releated! Check it out ladies!

Beyond Scrap Booking

October 18, 2007

I have never gotten into scrapping. When my sister destroyed one of my favorite family photos so that it “fit just right” into a page she was making without checking to see if we still had the negative to make more copies, was the end for me.

Then today I stumbled across this site: My Life In Print! This is too cool! Lance Gray, the site’s owner calls it a digital scrapbook. What you can do is scan your favorite family photos and either use prefab templates offered by Heritage Makers or create you own. From there the company will make for you at a very reasonable price a square bound hard cover book of your pictures!

Photographers charge thousands for these types of books and from looking through the site the pricing is very reasonable. And it goes beyond just weddings into all aspects of your life, the pictures can be anything you want from your memories. Check out some online samples here!

These are really cool.

If you are interested in the traditional form of scrapbooking then I suggest you check out Real Women Scrap, by Tarsa Dawson. A very eclectic blog that is fun to read.