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Brides A La Mode Update

Michiana Brides earlier this evening (Feb 21) the following was posted to the the Bride’s A La Mode facebook page by Kelsey Jones one of the brides caught up in the BAM closing mess.

BRIDES ALA MODE UPDATE – I was actually in the store today (drove by &there  were 3 ladies (1 of which was the previous manager of Andrea’s Bridal) standing in the store who let me in to talk about my situation).
they told me they are working separate from Kathy & have decided on their own to come in and try to do “damage control” and figure things out for those of us who have things on order. While I was in the store they set up a yahoo email for us to get in touch with them. The email that was set up is damagecontrol1229@yahoo.com (at least that is what was given to me).
They ask that everyone be kind since they aren’t even sure where to begin because things are such a mess. I agreed to send this to those who had posted on the fb page & they would like everyone to email them with their situation – they need to figure out who has dresses in the store (since the records aren’t correct) & what is owed, who has dresses actually on
order & which designers to contact, what items were never actually orderd, and what needs to be refunded (although this didn’t sound promising).

We have sent an email to this address ourselves, to get more information and will let you know what we find out.

BAM In The South Bend Tribune

Today’s Market Basket column in the South Bend Tribune has a brief blurb about their attempts to contact Kathy Strukel owner of Brides A La Mode.

We did not hear back from the owner about a possible reopening, nor did we receive new information about the status of the business after requesting it from the City Plaza shopping center owner.

If Kathy Strukel won’t even communicate with the South Bend Tribune, then this store is out of business. If  you have been holding out hope, thinking that this wedding gown shop would reopen or the owner would do what was right and put out a public notice about what was going to happen, we strongly suggest it’s time to move on. We feel bad for the customers who have been caught up in this mess. We have been recommending taking steps to move forward and find alternatives since nearly the start of this on January 31 and this should be the proof that that is the only option.

Can you get your money back? Many credit card companies allow you to protest a charge from 6 months to a year after purchase. Even if you are beyond that time you should be still be able to protest if you have not taken possession of your merchandise!

Did you pay by cash or check? If yes, your situation is far more difficult. But most likely you won’t get an answer back so your alternative is small claims court. But depending on the amount of money involved it may cost more to pursue in court than just writing it off to lesson learned. And even being rewarded an amount of money in court does not mean the defendant will pay it to you.

Was your gown in and you were storing it at BAM until needed? If you haven’t heard from Kathy Strukel and your attempts to contact her have resulted in nothing, there is the option of contacting the police. Several years ago a Michiana photographer vanished on his clients and after several complaints to the police by customers, the police opened his office and carted off all the negatives and prints they could find to distribute to the rightful customers.

When restarting the search for the perfect wedding gown for your Michiana Wedding we recommend checking out the following wedding gown shops: Our favorite is Bernardo’s for the Bride, loacated across from Farmers Market, in South Bend. There is also Greta’s on Lincolnway near the corner of Miami. In Plymouth there is Treats and in Elkhart there is Stephensons. All of them have long stable histories in the Michiana Wedding market.

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We have learned the doors are.open today till 1pm

Save the Date Cards

Q. When do you suggest sending save the date cards, our wedding is a year away? – Jenny

A. Save the date cards are usually sent out 6 to 8 months in advance of the wedding. However if you are scheduling your wedding during a holiday weekend or are having a destination wedding then it is a good idea to send them out 1 year in advance to give your family and friends time to plan. The most common form of save the date is a photo post card from your enegagement photography. Another idea is send out a magnet which can be placed on the refrigerator reminding your friends and family of the date. If you are having guests from out of the country make sure you send out save the dates with plenty of time to arrange their passports.


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Fun Video

It’s Monday everyone. Time to kick start the week. To get you up and going I found this fun video of students at Quebec University lip syncing to Black Eyed Peas, I Got A Feeling. What makes this video unique is it is one long single take. The camera never stopped recording.

Michiana Weddings Is Now The Discerning Bride!

The Discerning Bride, the best wedding information resource for brides and grooms getting married in Michiana, Notre Dame, South Bend, Mishawaka.

Welcome to the new Michiana Weddings now called The Discerning Bride! That old blogger template was getting old not to mention it wouldn’t function quite right anymore. So we decided to change. You can still access the old blog if you would like by clicking on the “original blog” tab in the navigation bar.

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