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Honeymoon, Don’t Get Stuck At The Airport!

I’m getting married in October and my fiancé and I are planning our Honeymoon to Brazil. I am wondering what name I should book my tickets under, maiden or married?-Julie

After doing a little research our recommendation is  the name on your airline tickets and other  reservations should match the name in your passport.

It can take several months to get your name changed on all of the necessary documents, passport, driver’s license and  several weeks to receive copies of your marriage license.  So if you are going out of country and need your passport then your airline tickets should match the name on your passport at the time of travel. Domestically many airlines will let you travel with your driver’s license in your maiden name as long as you have your marriage license with you as proof. But before you show up to the airport, please verify this with your airline, not all of them allow this.


Wedding Invitations

Q. When do you suggest sending save the date cards, our wedding is a year away? – Jenny

A. Save the date cards are usually sent out 6 to 8 months in advance of the wedding. However if you are scheduling your wedding during a holiday weekend or are having a destination wedding then it is a good idea to send them out 1 year in advance to give your family and friends time to plan. The most common form of save the date is a photo post card from your enegagement photography. Another idea is send out a magnet which can be placed on the refrigerator reminding your friends and family of the date. If you are having guests from out of the country make sure you send out save the dates with plenty of time to arrange their passports.

Band Vs DJ

Q: My father and I keep going back and forth about having a DJ vs a band. I want a band and he insists a DJ is good enough and that bands are too expensive. Which would you suggest?
Susan

A: Susan, this is a tough decision. We love bands and orchestras! Nothing can beat the energy, excitement or fun that a good band brings to a wedding reception. No disc jockey can beat a good to excellent band in crowd response or energy level, there is something about live music that will always be best. However a bad band will have your guests headed to the doors faster than a bad DJ will.
What you have will depend on your budget. A good disc jockey in the South Bend region will cost between $1000 to $1500+. To find a good band you are going to have to go outside the area to Chicago or Indy and that is going to cost you starting around $8000+. An orchestra has enough members that they don’t need to stop the music and take breaks every 30 minutes will cost you $10,000+. We really recommend finding an orchestra over a band. An orchestra will have enough members that they will be able to rotate out singers and players to take breaks but keep the music playing and the guests energized. When a band takes a break, many guests look at this as an opportunity to leave, so the more the music is going the better.
So it all depends on your budget. Do you have enough room to spend the thousands a good orchestra requires?

Readers Some Help Please

Got a question from an up coming bride that I am drawing a blank on. Checked around and our contacts aren’t quite sure where to send her, so I’m turning it over to our readers what do you recommend, leave your answers in the comments!

Question: I am looking for a place to get married, preferably within 20 miles of south bend that is non-traditional. I do love the feel of a Copshaholm or Tippecanoe (vintage garden style) but I have been to so many weddings there.

I’m thinking something shabby chic or more of a rustic elegant feel (again vintage garden ok too). Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. We are looking for something for June of 2011. Thank you in advance!

Lyndee