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Wedding Open House AT South Bend Country Club!

Michiana Brides the South Bend Country Club and the Michiana Wedding Network is having a Wedding Open house on  3/11 from 12-4!!!! If you are a Bride who would like to attend this FREE event, please email us at michianaweddingnetwork.com.

So Michiana Brides mark your calendar and plan on attending the Wedding Open House at the South Bend Country Club. We will add more details as we learn them!

 

 

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Brides A La Mode Remains Closed

It is a sad and stressful day in Michiana for an untold number of brides and bridesmaids and family members who haven’t found resolution to the closing of Brides A La Mode. As of 12:30 PM today, when we stopped at the gown shop, the doors at Brides A La Mode remain locked, the store is dark, and the sign announcing that the gown shop would reopen on February 15th remains in the window. There is no sign of any changes to the store, in the form of remodeling, one of the reasons the owner Kathy Strukel gave for the closing. There is also no changes to the website and no new announcements on their Facebook fan page.

We truly feel sorry for all the brides/friends/family who are suffering from this store closing. But in our opinion, if you had merchandise on order at Brides A La Mode and have been waiting to see if the gown shop did reopen today before taking other steps, it is time to start searching for alternatives. If you made your purchase by credit card, many card companies allow you to protest a charge as much as a year from the original purchase date. If you paid by cash or check there is legal recourse.

 

On the Facebook fan page for Brides A La Mode, there are two interesting posts from brides who did manage to get a refund on Saturday, here is the text:

Kelsey Jones Janine…go to gretas!!! she has been wonderful and truly 1 of the only people who have brought peace to this mess…she is willing to go out of her way to help the brides of BAM. and with today being the 15th…when I went to BAM to cancel my bridal gown order and obtain a refund I was told by Kathy herself in front of my maid of honor that the new owner took over yesterday…I would make it a point to get yourself as far away from this place as you can…the story has changed so many times that I’ve lost track…now that I’m out of there it feels like a huge weight has been lifted. oh and you pretty much needed to stalk the door to the store to know they so were open on saturday.

Dana Pageler Cohen I was at the store last Saturday and received a refund for an order on a wedding dress that was suppose to have been ordered in December, but when I contacted the designer, there was no record of any order made by BMA. The order had NEVER been made! Kathy was at the store, and graciously refunded the deposit, no questions asked. She said that there would be a new manager in place this week, however I drove by the store today, the reopening day, and the CLOSED sign was on the door. Still wondering what is exactly going on.

So Kathy Strukel was telling brides who were demanding refunds and their gowns on Saturday, when the store opened for 2 hours, (something that from postings on Facebook not all customers were informed of) that there were new owners. What do we think of this? Well in our opinion, we don’t know what to think, except we wouldn’t trust this any more than we trust the story that the shop closed for “remodeling” or “inventory”. And since the “new owners” did not change the sign saying the gown shop was suppose to reopen today, then did not reopen… If the gown shop has been sold to a new owner and they took possession last Friday then we would think they would be taking steps to minimize the damage the previous owner has done over the past two weeks! We do not understand if there are new owners and for some reason they couldn’t open the doors today, why they didn’t at least change the sign and offer up new information on the facebook page or website!

We would also like to point out that if there are new owners that does not mean they assumed the liabilities that the previous owner is under! They could have bought the unsold inventory or/and taken over the lease but that does not mean they agreed to be legally responsible for any existing orders paid to the previous owner.

Dana wonders what the real story is behind the closing, who knows, but it is safe to assume the store was not making enough money to stay open. But there are still plenty of Michiana Wedding vendors who can fill your wedding gown needs. If you want to shop at a store with a track record, there is Bernardo’s for the Bride and Greta’s. And to all the brides/moms/friends/grooms caught in the mess created by Kathy Strukel and Bride’s A La Mode we wish you good luck and just remember, weddings are about friends and family and love, a gown is important but it is only a part of the whole day, don’t let this mess ruin the enjoyment of your wedding day!

Wedding Inspiration From Celebrated Events

The beauty of a wedding planned by Cynthia Basker at Celebrated Events is unmatched in the Michiana area! Here are some pictures for wedding inspiration from Celebrated Events blog. Tina & James wedding took place at the Notre Dame Basilica of the Sacred Hear with the reception following at the Palais Royale in downtown South Bend. See more inspiration from Tina & James’ wedding at Celebrated Events!

Ceremony site: Basilica of the Sacred Heart, University of Notre Dame

Reception site: Palais Royale Ballroom, South Bend, IN

Floral/Decor: MichaelAngelos

Photography: Adam Novak Photography

Event Design & Coordination, Specialty Rentals: Celebrated Events

Paperie: Cloud Nine Invitation Design

Michiana Weddings

Michiana weddings is where you start to plan your Michiana Wedding. MichianaWeddings.com is one of the largest online resource of Michiana Wedding planning tips, professional wedding vendors in Michiana. Michiana Brides you will find a large assortment of professional Wedding vendors, including Michiana wedding vendors, located in Mishawaka, South Bend, Elkhart, Niles and Plymouth. Michiana Wedding vendors for all of your wedding needs including, Michiana wedding reception sites, Michiana cakes and bakeries, Michiana invitations, Michiana flowers and florists, Michiana photographers, video, Michiana DJ, limos, tuxes, wedding gowns, and gifts.Please tell the vendors you call that you were referred by Michiana Weddings the wedding planning source for Michiana Brides and Grooms!

Eventective Not A Website We Recommend!

Over a year ago we posted a warning about a website that had appeared in the search engines called Eventective. Our recommendation at the time was if you wanted to contact a wedding vendor there do a google or yahoo and now bing for the vendors name and not go through the Eventective system because it looked fishy. Our recommendation has not changed! Not surprisingly people identifying themselves as happy eventective vendors have posted the glowing praises of eventective many times. Not knowing who these people really were and, never was their company name listed those comments were moderated to the trash. That is until today when a comment appeared for moderation.  In the name of fairness so that they can have their say, here is the response from the eventective people.

Greetings from Eventective. Thank you all for sharing your experience, concerns and feedback and for giving us this opportunity to respond.

First, to allay fears, it is important to clarify that Eventective is not a scam or a fraud. We are a legitimate company, based in Portland, Maine with a dedicated client service team. You can reach us at 207.253.1653, or email us at getthefacts@eventective.com between 8 AM and 5 PM EST. We are here to answer any questions, concerns, or set your business up with a free trial offer. Eventective offers a FULL refund of every lead purchase that is invalid (incorrect email address or phone), or is a non-response 12 days after the lead purchase date. If the bride or individual does not respond after 12 days, you get a full refund. We work with clients on a daily basis to ensure their listing is updated, they are satisfied with the leads, and are not wasting their money.

Eventective is visited by more than 1.2 million individuals a month who are planning their events and looking for venues and vendors. Eventective leads are event requests created directly by these individuals as they browse venue and vendor listings by city and state. Here is how the leads are created:  When a bride or individual planning an event finds a venue or vendor listing they like, they can click on the red ‘Contact’ button on the detail listing and enter their event details. This event request is sent DIRECTLY to the business as a FREE direct lead. This lead is free as the bride or individual is contacting the venue or vendor directly. As a venue or vendor, you do not have to pay for this lead. In other words, when the bride is sending an event request thru the detail listing for the venue or vendor, Eventective does not charge the business, or the bride.

If the bride or individual chooses to have their event details sent to other venues or vendors in the area, they can make that selection in the event details form (by selecting various vendor types), and their event request is sent to those selected vendor types as an indirect lead. The bride or individual does not know which specific venue or vendors received the lead. The venue or vendor who receives this indirect lead can view all the event details and then decide to purchase that lead and contact the bride or individual directly regarding their event. Or, if the event details are not a fit, the venue or vendor can ignore the lead. Ignoring the indirect lead by not purchasing it does not damage the venue or vendor’s reputation, as the individual does not know which specific business received their indirect lead.

There is no cost for a venue or vendor to have a simple listing on Eventective, and there is no cost to brides/individuals to send their event requests to area venues and vendors.  Please review the information on Eventective that explains our Pay Per Lead Program – (removed by Michiana Weddings)

And here is some feedback from clients who have used Eventective and benefited from the leads -  (removed by Michiana Weddings)l

Again, please do not hesitate to contact us at 207.253.1653 or email us at (removed by Michiana Weddings)l. We look forward to hearing from you.

Our Turn:

First of all are you a scam? We consider you so because this is what we found out when we tested your system with friends across the country. Our friends tried to use your system for a direct vendor contact. We tried a sample in LA, Orlando, NJ and of course South Bend. Per your words: “his event request is sent DIRECTLY to the business as a FREE direct lead. This lead is free as the bride or individual is contacting the venue or vendor directly. As a venue or vendor, you do not have to pay for this lead.” Yes the vendors that we tried and our friends tried to contact through your system did receive the communications 3 to 5 days after the initial entry into your system! Oh but it gets better! Within hours of entering that attempted contact through your eventective system these vendors’  competitors received an email with a wedding who’s details were strangely similar to the one that was entered to contact the vendors directly. So the competitor who you sold those contacts to could easily contact the potential client days before the vendor they were attempting to contact even learns of the attempt! We also had a few of our friends pay for those strangely similar “leads” only to find that the lead was our wedding, that was supposed to be a direct contact to a specific vendor.  Here at Michiana Weddings we call that a SCAM!

We are sure you probably do have a lot of vendors happy with your services, they are receiving leads based on attempted contacts to competing vendors and they are getting them first. You are also playing with the reputation of the vendor who the consumer attempted to contact. Brides are finicky and if you don’t return their requests usually by the next morning if not the same day they send it they will move to the next vendor and when you do contact them, likely just ignore you. Really that is unfair to the vendors,  eventective who are at your mercy and you are playing with their customer service and their reputations!

Another reason we consider you a scam: How many vendors do you have listed that actually requested or even know you have them listed. In a random search of your listings in South Bend, we contacted 10 vendors you had listed between DJs, reception halls, photographers and bakeries. Of those 10 companies only one had actually requested a listing and they are fairly new in the area and only 4 knew they were listed! Everyone who is listed on Michiana Weddings either requested a listing  or was invited, but all of them know they are listed! Now we are not going to bore our brides with a lengthy explanation of search engine optimization and the boost having so many different companies with or without their permission listed on your site does, but deny it all you want you are doing it to scam the search engines and line your wallets with money!

We have removed the direct links you placed in your posting, no seo boost from Michiana Weddings. But as our brides can see, they can call  you.

To head off one of the arguments we received for Eventective; that they are a “search engine” like google or bing but for weddings. Our response is no they are not. Bing, Google, Yahoo etc do not attempt to interfere with you the consumer’s attempt to contact the vendor! All of the trusted search engines provide a direct link to the website of the vendor, list their phone numbers if the number is readable by the crawl robots and do not make you send a message through the search engine.

Evemtective we classify a scam. If as a bride or groom you use their website to find your vendors, that is your choice, but be aware, direct contact to a vendor will take days to get through to that vendor, in the meantime you will probably start hearing from vendors that you did not contact. The tardiness of the vendor contacting you is not the vendors fault! So please don’t penalize them for this! And we still recommend, get the vendor’s name and then go to google.com, bing.com or yahoo.com and contact that vendor through their own website this way you are assured the message is getting through directly and speedily.

Below is the “contact” form to directly reach a wedding vendor listed on eventective. You will notice, no phone number, no direct website link and they want you to “allow” them to make the contact on your behalf. As we found out this is to sell your information to competing vendors while the contact will wait a few days before they know you even exist! While not in any way breaking a law,  we find this awfully” scammy” on the part of eventective!

Happy New Year!

To all our readers we just want to wish you a Happy New Years! We hope this year brings you many happy returns.

For those who just got engaged over the Holiday Season, CONGRATULATIONS!

Happy New Years Everyone

-Amy